I am Linds

I Am Allie

 We're Best Friends Though Not Friends

**To Other Kids You See We'll Teach You**

To Run Away When You are Grounded

For Reason's that are truly based on Family Values

Our Parents Truly Do Care about Us

Yes We Can't Face the Truth

We Truely Do Cause Our Own Problems

(We will tell You Don't Follow Rules)

also We like to Play Victim 

We'll tell You How Bad We have it

• We have a bad Home life
• We will even tell you we're just like you our parents don't care
• We will say how we're not allowed to listen to music use the phone have any free time we can't go to parties we can't hang with boys or have any friends

What We forget to Tell You is

• We are always Argumentative
• We can not Follow even Simple Rules
• We Don't like being Grounded even though it's to teach us take a Time Out so we can stop making the same mistakes make ourselves a better person have a positive attitude see the true good in life
• We abuse priviledges by not working for them
• We use the phone without permission
• We hang with other kids who don't challenge us to do better
• We listen to negative music even though told not to or even sneak cd's or swap MP3's online We forget to tell You Yes Negative Music can effect Your Life
• We Don't tell You trying to Act Bad as in Homie Gangsta Gang banger Jugganette Clown Posse Rolling Hard or being a Taggard OCC Peckerwood as does the Clothes You wear The Signs You Flash the Dark Make Up The Dark Black Hooded Sweat Shirts or Writing on Hands Arms or Bodies the Body Piercings Tattoo's not only Set You Up for the Police and Others to Judge You plus make You Look really Stupid... they will also

1. Get You Bad Grades
2. Get You Friends who really don't care
3. Get You around Drugs and Alcohol
4. Put You in the Wrong Place at the Wrong Time
5. Put You in Fear of Pregnancy even STD's
6. Have You Looking over Your Shoulder watching Your Back Walking in Circles Miles and Miles trying to find a place to hide Have People telling You! "You can't stay here We know Your kind" while Your Hungry Lonely Tired and have No Money! No Place to Stay!
7. Yes even have Other Bad Kids Threaten You! ... Call You Names ... While Good Kids will run the other way they already know Your Bad News ... how you ask? they listened to others and that's why smarter then you!
8.  Plus with Your New Reputation be saying the truth about how they truly see you! ... as we have said Negative brings on only negative is Only You who has messed up your life ...Kids can be Mean and We say is only you who put yourself there by listening to others even more stupid then you ... even adults can give you bad advice ...those that themselves follow all the above ...their message also what harm can it do ... were maybe never taught family values ... better yet ask do they follow the "Lead by Example Rule" ...whereby they teach you how you can improve your life by doing what they also tell you to do!

How Do We Know? We're the Kids

You Don't want to Hang Out With

That is till We Stop Doing what We do

There is still Hope for Us and You!

Called Standup and Do The Right Thing

Listen to the Advice of People

Who Truly Love You

Yeah Those People!

Who are All Over Your Rear

Saying When are You Going

To Wake Up and be the Person

You Really Should be !

You Have the Potential

To Be Somebody

Yeah You Can if You Try! Start Today!

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Bakersfield,Ca  Kern County & The World

Teachings My Mom/Step Dad Taught Me

• I must Always get permission before going somewhere. My Parents are concerned for my safety
• Parents must know the place, the parent or legal guardian responsible, before allowed to visit anyone ... they must also talk and verify with them ... who they are ... the place they live is this a safe enviroment ... also if visiting a parent or guardian must be present during visit ... and be deemed a responsible adult with no alcohol or drug usage in my presence ... I am also not allowed to be in a vehicle without prior permission ... this is for my own safety also to insure I am where I say I am and my whereabouts are known in the event of an emergency
• I am also Not Allowed to visit in area's or other places deemed unsafe these are off limits to me ... I Do Know these area's that are not allowed (This is not a put down on the people who live in these area's it is for my safety as other parents living in these area's would also tell me and also have) I am also not allowed to visit area's where people gather for purposes of alcohol or drug usage such as street corners parks shopping malls shops stores that are known area's for such activity ... places I am allowed are places that offer a families value enviroment
• I am Not allowed phone calls both either ones I make or received calls unless parents know who calling or talking to. This is to keep me from talking to wrong people... I am also not allowed to give the house number or my cell number out to others without permission
• Phone calls are not to be made after 9 PM this is called common decency only calls made after this time will be ok'd by both parents guardians as being ok
• No Phone Calls to Boys or Men ... Men being 18 years or Older because can be Deemed a Distraction ... Men 18 and above should not be Talking to Me in 1st place unless a Close Friend to Parents or a Relative ... I am asked to wait until at least 16 before asking for dating priviledges thereby I can mature enough to know what my mental thoughts and physical feelings truly are (This Applies for Boys too). This is not to dis-allow me from talking to at school or while in a school or at a social event ... 18 is actual preferred age being it will not distract me from school and getting my education ... *Girls also deemed distraction or detrimental to my well being as well as music or other activities will also not be allowed* ... these are values taught to me to promote a positive outlook on life
• I Do know the Difference between Rights and Priviledges ... Priviledges are Earned  Rights are Given as to What I might or not be allowed ... As a Minor less then 18 I am not given the Rights an Adult has ...My Parents are as Myself Responsible for My Actions and by Law can Deem Rules I must Follow till 18 ... These Laws pretaining to Guidelines for Parenting to Children under 18  ... I am also not allowed to Smoke ... Drink ...Do Drugs (Both State and Federal Law)... Get Pierced (California Law January 1st 2006 No One under 18 even with Adult Consent)... Get Tattoo'd (Federal Law No Person under 18 is a Felony deemed as Child Batterment for anyone applying a Tattoo to a Minor Child ) ... I am also aware of the Patriot Act regarding Guidelines regarding Children under 18 and how Laws applied Help Schools to Rule in Manners of what can be deemed Subversive Behavior that apply to those under 18
• I was Never Given Parental Permission to Pierce Mark or Tattoo Myself nor Wear Heavy Make Up ... I have not been Taught to have Hate Prejudice or Jealousy from My Mom or Step Dad
• I am not Allowed to Wear Clothes that can be Deemed hateful,racist,sexist or have negative connotations... I am also asked to wear normal clothes not dark in colors so as to promote a positive outlook to others to also look clean and friendly in manner
• I am not allowed on My Computer without permission also it is agreed I will be supervised as to content I am viewing ... I am not allowed to write profanity in text messages chats or emails ...I am also not allowed to call others I meet online with as above phone permissions this is not allowed without permission as is not to give my address or personal home or cell phone number ... I am also not allowed to sign up for programs unless given permission

The Reason for this Information

If You Meet Me and I Say it is Ok to Do Something 

You Better Question Am I Following above Rules

Then I would Advice You Talk to My Mom/Step Dad 1st

Then You Will Find They Truly Care About Me

In Other Words Call and Insure it is Ok 1st 

Plus Know if it is After Dark and I say it is Ok to be there

I am not following the Rules! and the Sheriff or Police have been Called

My Mom also for My Protection Gives Permission

To Detain Me till She or the Proper Law Authorities arrive

*Stated Warning- If Not Complied-You Shelter or Hide Me*

You also will be if found there with you unless prior ok'd visit

You will be Prosecuted to the Full Extent of the law